Few days back a news flash came about priyanka-umar marriage,these are no celebrities neither are they their wards so why did their private affair become a hot social issue?Eveyone gets married then what's strange about priyanka umar affair?
The reason why their marriage became a news was that they both belong to different religion and it was suppossed that their union could disturb communal harmony,now the question is why it happens?
According to my point of view marriage is a personal issue,and its up to individuals with whom they want to spend their lives.Our constitution says that any citizen above marrigable marriage has the right to choose a partner of his/her choice.
what's there in such a human bond which lacks love.If a boy and girl think that their getting together can cater their needs in a fruitful manner with their choices that harm in that?
At a moment I am not against the system of arranged marriage which is under practise for centuries but I fully support a change ,afterall its a law of nature.The things/system which were developed at that time suited that era but with the spread of education,advancement and with the changing life style/thought process these things should also be accepted.
The reason why their marriage became a news was that they both belong to different religion and it was suppossed that their union could disturb communal harmony,now the question is why it happens?
According to my point of view marriage is a personal issue,and its up to individuals with whom they want to spend their lives.Our constitution says that any citizen above marrigable marriage has the right to choose a partner of his/her choice.
what's there in such a human bond which lacks love.If a boy and girl think that their getting together can cater their needs in a fruitful manner with their choices that harm in that?
At a moment I am not against the system of arranged marriage which is under practise for centuries but I fully support a change ,afterall its a law of nature.The things/system which were developed at that time suited that era but with the spread of education,advancement and with the changing life style/thought process these things should also be accepted.
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yaar irony of life is nothing but
every body wants to define things like freedom according to his own needs and comforts. but in society like India where a child is rear and looked after by the family member and bear a surname, take every liberty of the society till he grows up and suddenly one day he starts saying that he want his freedom because he is not feeling comfortable with the societies norms..
some body please tell me the definition of freedom. is it only the individualistic thing or with that freedom we should feel bit responsible towards society if we say that man is a social animal. because any body who preaches for freedom then getting married is itself is synonym of coexistence it means you are making certain compromises with your freedom then if your family member who says that don’t go for inter cast marriages then it dos not mean that they are against your freedom but they are concerns with there life
because they face social boycott and so many things that make there life virtual hell...but they don’t care about it. What dose it means. it means "great freedom comes with great responsibility"
freedom is not a product, it is state of mind. so in my point of view if my freedom creates problem for others then I should not exercise that freedom.. Because responsibility comes before freedom...
Request: Write one blog on Friends , one on Love & one on astrology :-)
hi manoj here is the blog on friendship..
in my point of view friends are the only word which show that there is something extra in human then animals because we care about the people whom we love and except family i am not talking about family because every sane human being do care about there family naturally because they grow with them but the world "friend" comes by instinct and very naturally and it dose not happens with everybody you can see how many people have real friends for life time...the people who have friends for life time just ask them what make them a good friends and they can not give any single answer because you don't need a reason or you can not make true friends with purpose..true friends comes naturally to you, like a gift of GOD...you don't expect any thing in return and just being with a friend gives you a nice feel they understand you, listen you, accept you as you are, they give very honest feed back about yourself without any fear and you know they will be there where no body not even your family support you.
some people confuse this friendship word with mutual consent or we can say some people think
that if i scratch your back and you scratch mine then we are friends then these poor people do not know the real essence of friendship.... because there is know way of continuously scratching each others back and when somebody stop due to some reason then there friendship comes to an end...and in delhi it happens often....
in my opinion friendship is one step ahead then love because love has some conditions some boundaries love need loyalty to one but friend give you ample space to live they don't try to change you when you are happy you can calibrate with your family your friend don't even bothered but when you are said you go to him and he is the only one who can give you the solutions, advices, everything that can make you happy....and he is the only person who's life is not dependent on you but who care about your feeling who respect your existence..not your deeds in my point of view the saying "a friend in need is a friend indeed" is wrong it should be like
"you wont need anything if you have a true friend"
Do you have have a true friend??????????
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